If you want to feel good about yourself, go back to your home church. My brother and his family go to church where we grew up so there are of course many new faces I do not recognize but there are LOTS of faces that I do recognize, and they were like you look so good, your kids are beautiful, etc, etc. I walked into church feeling pretty good about myself...ha ha!!! Anyway, that of course was not the "highlight" of the day. The "highlight" was we were there to see Bently be baptized. Such a good feeling to know not only are we family, but we are now sisters in Christ.